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How to Fix a Toxic Relationship?

· Relationship

It would be better to repair the broken relationship, before the breakup of the relationship, we should understand that there are such things due to which the situation of conflict arises in the relationship. And how can the relationship be saved before it breaks down?

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If you're seeing early signs of a toxic relationship like relationship manipulation, lies, humiliation, or betrayal, it's scary indeed.

You are requested not to tolerate such behavior and also do not tolerate negative talk from your partner. You should face criticism fiercely because it is good to explain the matter in time. Living with fear, and thinking yourself crazy will lower your confidence and can lead to mental illnesses.

  1. Lack of Support - If your partner does not agree with you on any of the common issues of life. And if you feel that you don't feel supported or encouraged. So understand that a toxic wall is arising in the relationship.
  2. Toxic communication - If any partner in a relationship uses toxic communication/abuse, assault, or any other abusive language during normal communication, then it is understood that the relationship has reached the peak of breakup.
  3. Jealousy - Sometimes it is normal to have jealousy, but if the level of jealousy goes above normal then it is appropriate to think about it. If your partner competes with you and has a feeling of jealousy about your victory, then do not deny it, but go to the root of its cause and try to remove it.
  4. Holding your partner responsible for your feelings - It is not fair to hold your partner responsible for any of your failures. Because behind both our success and failure, we have our own struggles.
  5. Hiding money - Keeping your money or any other documents hidden with your partner is also a symptom of a toxic relationship.
  6. Ignoring the needs - Ignoring the needs of the partner is also a symptom of a toxic relationship.

Points by which you can solve Toxics Relationship -

  1. Always keep an Honest Conversation with your partner.
  2. Understand your responsibilities and take responsibility for them.
  3. If you want to invest, then invest together.
  4. Avoid blaming each other for any mistake or deteriorating work.
  5. Take accountability
  6. Give each other space to heal.
  7. If you make a mistake, accept it and if possible, ask for forgiveness once.

All these things will help you a lot in avoiding toxic relationships. If even after this you are facing problems, then it would be advisable to take online therapy by a professional. We recommend that you try relationship counselling provided by a psychologist.